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What’s a mom to do about baby food?

Monday, January 16th, 2012

~guest post by MRS

One morning HandyMan called me from work and asked me how my day was going. In the middle of changing a diaper, I propped the phone between my ear and shoulder and told him that so far that morning I was 3 for 3. Confused he asked me what I meant and I replied that I had changed 3 diapers so far that morning and all of them had been poopy, thus 3 for 3. Such is the glamorous life of a stay at home mom.

Sadly that’s not an abnormal morning for me. Sometimes it seems like all I get done all day is feeding the kids and changing their diapers. When Blue and Daisy wake up in the morning they both act as if they’re starving and demand food. Blue waits, temporarily appeased with an episode of Thomas & Friends (Blue is obsessed!), while I nurse Daisy. Then I change both their diapers and get Blue and myself breakfast. And so goes the rest of the day.

baby, high chair, baby foodRecently we added even more feedings to our day when we started Daisy on solid foods. I had put off introducing baby food because Daisy was premature and because it would just add that much more to my day. I thought as long as she was satisfied and gaining weight well with just breastfeeding that I would hold off on giving her baby food. But at her 6-month well child appointment, the doctor strongly encouraged me to start giving Daisy solid foods. So we did.

And while it has added more to my daily “to do” list, it has also been fun. Daisy hasn’t had a lot of variety yet, but I really enjoy watching her learn and experience new things. The faces Daisy makes as she tries a new food for the first time and the excitement she shows when she really likes a new food are so fun to watch. Sometimes she is literally bouncing in the high chair while I feed her.

toddler, thomas the train, trainBut what about the safety of baby food? As a stay at home mom, I have enough to do trying to keep up with laundry, cleaning and taking care of the kids that it seems overwhelming to add making baby food to the list, but I want to make sure the food I’m feeding her is healthy and safe. To ease my concerns about the safety of baby food, I did a little research and learned that the plastic used in Gerber baby food (the kind I generally buy) is BPA free and just by reading the labels of baby food learned that the only added ingredient is water.

So I continue to buy baby food. And this gives me more time to play “choo choos” with Blue, cuddle with Daisy and change all those poopy diapers.


My Food Resolution

Friday, December 30th, 2011

~guest post by MRS

As a rule, I don’t make resolutions, mostly because I’m terrible at keeping them. Like a lot of people, I think about things I need to change, activity levels, eating healthier, keeping our house cleaner, etc. Then I try really hard to accomplish these things for a few weeks, but before I know it I’ve missed a few days. Then a few weeks pass and I’ve slid back into the old habits. Our house is cluttered, I’m spending too much time on our couch and I’m thinking, “What diet?”

I know I’m not the only one who does this.

But as I think about what our life is going to look like this coming year, potential job changes, growing kids and more involvement in our family farm. I realize, that eating healthy foods plays a huge roll in our ability to accomplish those things.

sweet corn, toddlerBlue is a very busy toddler. He loves to play in the mud and is obsessed with trains, but he struggles with constipation. If we don’t give him enough fruits and vegetables to eat, he has painful bowel problems. So I buy fruit, lots and lots of fruit. And I feed it to Blue like it’s going out of style, but I don’t eat it myself. I sit down to lunch with Blue and he’s eating fresh fruits and veggies and what do I have? Generally, I’m eating a turkey sandwich, potato chips & drinking a can of pop. What am I teaching him by doing this?

Daisy is 6 months old now and we’ve recently started introducing her to solid foods. She is happy baby girlstill deciding whether or not she likes them, but over the next few months we’ll transition her from a liquid only diet to a diet that isn’t just pureed fruits and veggies, but also finger foods. By the time her birthday rolls around, she’ll be eating mostly table foods. It’s hard to imagine that now, but the next 6 months will bring a lot of changes to Daisy. She’ll practically be a whole new kid!

As my kids grow, it’s increasingly important that HandyMan and I teach them what it means to be healthy. We need to drink water and not pop, eat fruit and vegetables instead of potato chips because if we just tell them how to be healthy without actually showing them what being healthy is, what are they learning? So it’s time to make some changes, to start practicing what we preach and leading by example.

Here goes nothing.

What are you hoping to change in 2012?

 


The Greatest Gifts

Thursday, December 22nd, 2011
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A reminder of what really matters...

What’s the greatest gift you’ve ever received? If you’re like me, you enjoy finding and giving gifts – especially if it’s something special for the recipient. My husband thinks I’m a bit overboard with shopping and making gifts, especially for our little darling, but I find the resulting glee to be incredibly satisfying. Contrast that with hubby’s typical response of “Thanks, this is nice.” said in a perfect monotone with the all the excitement of a stone – no matter if it’s a requested tool or a pack of gum. Who knows, that might change this Christmas (or he’ll at least fake it since I’ve publicly thrown him under the bus)? More on that later.

This time of year, it’s easy to think about all of the presents under the tree. However, our greatest gifts are often overlooked. These are a few of my favorites.

  • Health: If you have it, you likely don’t think about it. A few scares this year taught me that’s a mistake. Don’t take your health for granted. Just ask Leontien.
  • People to thank:  Those who provide friendship, comfort you, support you professionally, work with you, challenge you and  inspire you deserve gratitude. And don’t wait to utter words of thanks and respect; I learned that the hard way this past week with the sudden death of Chris Raines.
  • A driving passion: Mine is obviously building connections between those who grow, make and consume food. I consider a blessing to have a life’s passion that drives my work, though it’s also a challenge to keep that balanced with my personal passions invested in our little family.
  • Enough food: We grossly overeat around the holidays – I started today with sugar cookies for breakfast. It’s easy to forget the one in five that are hungry in this country while we’re shoving food in our mouths.  May I suggest you make it part of your 2012 to not forget those without?
  • Grounding: The arrival of  Paynacres Perfect Peppermint this morning (our first heifer in nearly two years) reminded my of the importance of staying grounded in my roots  – as you can tell from her name. The prefix is the only thing I have left from my parents herd and Perfect is the matriarch of the family that I paid $7000 for when I was 12 years old and she was a six month-old heifer.  I’m sure Peppermint will provide reminders of husbandry, perseverance and patience while she’s in our barn. Even more importantly, she’ll be a part of inspiring the next generation’s love of agriculture – apparent in full force as mom and daughter were jumping up and down in in excitement together this morning.
  • Friendship: I am blessed with a vast and varied circle of friends, near and far. Those I hold closest seem to get the remnants of me, which I hope to change in2012. Sometimes a cup of coffee with a girlfriend is the greatest gift. Other times, it’s the inspiration from seeing what friends across agriculture are doing, yet I probably don’t do enough to express that to people. Do you? If you’re fortunate enough to have people who make a difference in your life, let them know!
  • Technology: Think this about how Apples are the greatest devices? Nope, though I could make a case for that. Consider where our world would be without technology. It can drive us nutso, leave us frenzied and put our thumbs in casts. Yet technology can also save a sweet baby’s life (as I’ve watched it do for more than one friend), help us survive natural disasters and yes, provide more people with nutrients to survive.
  • Faith: I’m a Christian; I believe in that baby born in a manger so long ago was the ultimate gift. But I also believe my friends in Egypt should celebrate their faith without our judgement, just as I believe Jewish friends deserve to hear Happy Hanukkah. And if I know you’re of a different faith, I’ll make a point of greeting you accordingly. However, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with Merry Christmas meant with all the spirit of the season. And that’s all I’m going to say about that before we get into a religious debate.

Merry Christmas. Thanks for sharing the journey.  May you find time to reflect on the greatest gifts in your life as you look under your tree.


Looking beyond my full plate

Monday, November 28th, 2011

~guest post by MRS

As I was sitting down to eat Thanksgiving dinner with my family last week, I started thinking. Not about the amazing food I was about to eat (although the food was amazing), but about the 1 in 6 people in our country who regularly don’t get enough to eat.

It’s easy to stand on our soapboxes and talk about the ineffectiveness of entitlement programs, i.e. food stamps or how people just need to get a job to feed their family. It’s also easy to get caught up in the arguments about food and farming. We should all eat only local, organic foods or conventionally grown food is fine or that all GMO foods need to be labeled as such. And while I understand that these are things that people are passionate about, sometimes I wonder if we’re focusing on these “secondary” issues a little too much.

Because, seriously, there are people in our own communities who are going hungry! Isn’t it more important that people are fed than whether or not they’re eating GMO or non-GMO food? I imagine that if you went up to a parent who was struggling to feed his children and offered that parent food, regardless of what kind it was, that the parent would be grateful just to be able to feed his children. I know I would. It breaks my heart to think about even the possibility of not being able to feed my children, and yet for some parents that is a daily reality.

It took a little bit of the joy out of my Thanksgiving dinner to think that while my family had more than enough to eat, my neighbors might have nothing. And as I thought about the arguing and in fighting that seems to permeate the food & farming industries, it all seemed just a little silly to me.

Americans hungry at Thanksgiving

Who is hungry in your community?

Why can’t we focus on making sure that there is enough, affordable food for everyone before we get caught up in the organic vs. conventional, GMO vs. non-GMO, etc. debates.

I realize that it’s a tall order to make sure everyone has enough to eat. I also know that it’s overwhelming to think about feeding all 7 billion people in the world, and that for a lot of people, myself included, it’s easy to look at that number and be so overwhelmed that I do nothing. It’s also easy to get so caught up in my own life that I forget to think about what other people might be going through. So I thought to myself, “What can I do, in my community, to help, even in a small way?” And I realized there’s a lot I can do. I can volunteer at and donate to my local food pantry. I can give money, even if it’s just a small amount, to my church’s “Care & Share” fund. Most importantly, I can stop making excuses for why I can’t do anything and instead, make it a priority.

What can you do to help feed the hungry in your community?


Do Activists Destroy Family Farms?

Wednesday, November 2nd, 2011

A mother who had to go back to work to cover legal costs. A dad who never had health issues now has to visit the doctor for stress-induced illness. A little girl so worried about her family farm being taken away that she has panic attacks. This is the reality of what activists do to family farmers. Count it as a wake-up call for anyone who thinks it will never happen to them.

“Pray to God it doesn’t happen to you” is the single message Alan Hudson wants his fellow farmers to know about his experience with activists. “Go to meetings even when it doesn’t suit you and keep up on the regulatory front.” It’s not just about the $200,000+ in legal costs; it’s the embarrassment of being in the local paper more than a kidnapper who murdered a little girl. It’s the toll it’s taken on the entire Hudson family. And, it’s the invasion of privacy with planes circling their farm whenever they’re working cattle.

The Washington Post and Baltimore Sun calling for a comment alerted Alan and his wife, Kristin, about the pending lawsuit in December 2009. Rather than talking to the Hudsons about their concerns or contacting them through lawyers, Waterkeeper Alliance turned to the media. At question? A pile at the back of the Hudson farm.

Waterkeepers hurt family farmsOn a flight over their farm on the Delmarva Peninsula, an activist saw a pile that she thought was chicken manure. Assateague Coastkeeper and Kathy Phillips posted aerial photographs of what they claim to be a chicken litter pile at Hudson, later determined to be Class A biosolids. In technical terms, Class A biosolids can be land applied without any pathogen-related restrictions at the site – and the pile in question had been pasteurized.  In other words, it’s waste water solids that can also  be bagged and marketed to the public for application to lawns and gardens. Yes, that would be “nutrient-rich organic materials” from humans – in this case, from Ocean City.

Maryland Department of the Environment (MDE) investigated the mystery pile of poo, asked the Hudsons to move the pile to a different location on the farm. Alan obliged and spent most of the week of Christmas moving and covering the pile.  MDE was happy and said the farm didn’t need to take any further action other than to spread the biosolid pile in the spring for the next crop growing season.  They inspected the farm again in January 2010, noting “no animal manure piles were observed outside.”

Yet the federal lawsuit was still filed, first by Waterkeeper Alliance, Assateague Coastkeeper and Kathy Phillips alleging discharges in violation of the Clean Water Act, the latter of which were dismissed as plaintiffs. Hudson said their latest claim is that manure if flying out of fans, which he considers highly unlikely since urine and feces are mixed in the poultry species. I suspect the only manure flying around is that from people looking for trouble.

Alan and his 75 year-old dad run what activists call a “factory farm.” They have Cornish Hens in two barns and contract with Perdue Farms because it’s the best business decision for their family to have a stable income. They produce around 500,000 servings of Cornish Hens a year in their barns; composting the manure so that it only needs to be removed once/year (minimizing environmental impact). The Hudsons also have 45 head of beef cattle and  farm 200 acres of corn, soybeans and hay. Alan and Kristin are the fourth generation on their farm and have not had any problems with their neighbors in the the past until this one paid activist – who lives  in a resort town, but regularly conducts ditch tests without any regard to record rainfall or other conditions.

None of us in agriculture will say that we’re in a perfect business; it’s dirty, exhausting and can be smelly. Technology has improved our ability to deal with manure – both animal and human (as shown with the info on biosolids above), but it’s still manure. Farms like the Hudsons use a nutrient management plan to ensure they’re protecting the land, air and water as much as possible. They live on that land, drink the water there and send their kids out to play – it’s not logical that they’d be poisoning their home. Unfortunately, there is no plan for how to deal with well-funded activists that are getting free legal counsel from the state’s land grant institution.

Alan points out that people don’t understand farms like they did when more people were farming. And with lawsuits like this, I have to wonder how many family farmers will be around in the future. If you’re one of them, please use this as a reason to talk to people. If you’re not on a farm, perhaps this is a wake up call to the very real struggles faced by farmers because of activists in today’s litigious society

Note from MPK: After receiving the link to http://savefarmfamilies.org on Facebook and verifying the story through Maryland ag organizations, I really wondered what was wrong with our society. It saddens me when activists destroy the lives of farm families. It angers me that this farm may never see a fifth generation. And it reminds me that more people have to stand up for what’s right.  The Hudsons don’t know it yet, but will be receiving one of the 10x Connect grants to help, in a small way, with their legal costs (you can give at the website). I  reached out to Alan & Kristin to help tell their story. What can you do to ensure this doesn’t happen to more farms?